Things to look for in a partner
Again, credits 2 e-harmony.com .. i think 
No comments from me this time.
On e-harmony you should chose only 3, in real life you will add some more.
Please comment on this … if you feel like
So, here it is:
| Chemistry… | ||
| I must feel deeply in love with and attracted to my partner. | ||
| Communicator… | ||
| I must have someone who is good at talking and listening. | ||
| Sense of Humor… | ||
| I must have someone who is sharp and can enjoy the humorous side of life. | ||
| Verbal Intimacy… | ||
| I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest emotional thoughts and desires. | ||
| Emotionally Healthy… | ||
| I must have a partner who is emotionally healthy, and able to share a stable life with someone else. | ||
| Strong Character… | ||
| I must have a partner who is honest and strong enough to do the right thing. | ||
| Artistry… | ||
| I must have a partner who has a passion for music, literature, drama, art, and the finer things in life either as a spectator or participant. | ||
| Education… | ||
| I must have someone whose educational achievements match my own. | ||
| Exciting… | ||
| I must have someone who isn’t afraid to take a risk and who sees life as an adventure. | ||
| Patience… | ||
| I must have someone who can handle life’s frustrations or momentary setbacks with a patient, steady, demeanor. | ||
| Conflict Resolver… | ||
| I must have a partner who will work to resolve rather than win arguments or conflicts within our relationship. | ||
| Personal Habits… | ||
| I must have a partner who maintains high standards of personal hygiene, orderliness, and other personal habits. | ||
| Affectionate… | ||
| I must have someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection. | ||
| Energy Level… | ||
| I must have someone whose energy level matches my own. | ||
| Intellect… | ||
| I must have a partner who is bright and can share my understanding of the world as well as enjoy discussing important issues. | ||
| Self-Confident… | ||
| I must have a partner who knows and believes in himself/herself throughout life’s ups and downs. | ||
| Able to Accept Help… | ||
| I must have a partner who is willing to accept outside help for personal or relationship issues that are serious and important. | ||
| Curiosity… | ||
| I must have a partner who is hungry for new information and knowledge and who strives to learn as much as possible. | ||
| Adaptability… | ||
| I must have a partner who is able to adapt to life’s surprises. | ||
| Kindness… | ||
| I must have a partner who is gentle and kind. | ||
| Organized… | ||
| I must have a partner who values structure in their life. | ||
| Attractiveness… | ||
| I must have a partner who is considered “very attractive” by most current standards. | ||
| Industriousness… | ||
| I must have someone who is willing to work hard at whatever they do. | ||
| Emotionally Generous… | ||
| I must have a partner who enjoys people and is generous with his or her compassion, attention, sympathies and love. | ||
| Unassuming… | ||
| I must have someone who is able to accept criticism, and even admit to being wrong sometimes. | ||
| Loyal… | ||
| I must have someone I can count on to always support me. | ||
Values
| Family Life… | ||
| I must have a partner who is committed to marriage, home, and family. | ||
| Style and Appearance… | ||
| I must have someone who cares about the way they look and dress and has a sense of personal style. | ||
| Shared Politics… | ||
| I must have someone who has political beliefs which are the same or similar to my own. | ||
| Spirit of Volunteerism… | ||
| I must have a partner who shares my willingness to volunteer and support community and/or social causes. | ||
| Autonomy… | ||
| I must have a partner who will give me space to be my own person. | ||
| Shared Interests… | ||
| I must have someone who is willing to share my interests and passions. | ||
Sexuality
| Passionate… | ||
| I must have someone who is willing to explore our sexual desires with passion and understanding. | ||
Spirituality
| Spirituality… | ||
| I must have someone with a similar deep commitment to spirituality, who shares my beliefs.
( 1 comment . this is like imperative in semit cultures …. I find it quite irrelevant actually ) |
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| Spiritual Acceptance… | ||
| My partner must accept and respect my spiritual beliefs, whether they share them or not. | ||
and the retweet ability
all well-thought arguments
however, the word “must” is a bit too strong when it comes to relationships and commitment (my opinion). You might want to consider “should” instead.
they said it .. so it must be right
still, if I say :
I should have some some one who has the sense of humor it’s like not really having one who has the sense of humor… if i say i must have -> that’s more probably to happen .. isn’t it?
Well, maybe it is more probable, but it’s not philosophically correct
. You know, happiness is not like a law of biology: I must eat or I will die. However, it’s true that humor is good for your health (mental and physical), but it’s not necessary (must) 
. Just kidding (or am I?).